You just might want to agree that building a long lasting relationship takes deliberate steps. It requires that both love birds make conscious effort in making things run pretty smoothly. If you have ever found yourself in a relationship where you were too complacent to make a commitment then it just could affirm the fact that you probably weren’t ready for one.
The benefits of being married takes loads of emotions and commitment; little wonder some folks run away from making any commitment at all. Whether you are in a simple relationship for the mere reason of experimenting, or are looking to be tied with the legalities of marriage, the fact would always remain that for a relationship to stay healthy and thrive there must be commitment. If this is the case, why are some people afraid of such commitments?
Whilst some consider it is some form of being caged because they think they might be glued to just one person for life, others think that being committed in a relationship would cause them to be financially accountable to their partners. So, with these kinds of excuses and more they just would prefer to stay away from serious relationships.
The question however is; is it the best option?
What about the rich ones who feel that staying committed in a relationship is an absolute no go area because they fear the eventuality of a divorce that might require splitting assets and so they blatantly refuse to tie the nuptial knot. But shouldn’t love mean looking beyond oneself and what you have and going ahead to risk being in a relationship?
What has the world turned into! Could the world going global have anything at all to do with this? Or shall we say the media has sold us so much lies? Isn’t it time for us to look beyond all that we are being sold by the media and plain pursue our deep seated heart desires?
Well ….your guess is as good as mine. One sure thing remains that when you do find that special someone, staying committed becomes as easy as minced meat.