​Sadness and Health – Dr Maureen Ona-Igbru 

Sadness can be due to bad business and financial loss, bad relationships, lost of loved one, broken marriages, Jealousy and envy, insatiable human beings, to mention few. However, many things that happen in your life can disrupt your emotional health. These can lead to strong feelings of sadness, stress, or anxiety. Even good or wanted changes can be as stressful as unwanted changes.
Your body responds to the way you think, feel, and act. People who have good emotional health are aware of their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. They have learned healthy ways to cope with the stress and problems that are a normal part of life. They feel good about themselves and have healthy relationships.
If feelings of stress, sadness, or anxiety  are causing physical problems, keeping these feelings inside can make you feel worse.

Focus on the things that you are grateful for in your life.

This doesn’t mean you have to pretend to be happy when you feel stressed, anxious, or upset. It’s important to deal with these negative feelings, but try to focus on the positive things in your life, too. You may also need to find ways to let go of some things in your life that make you feel stressed and overwhelmed. Make time for things you enjoy. To have good emotional health, it’s important to take care of your body by having a regular routine for eating healthy meals, getting enough sleep, and exercising to relieve pent-up tension. Avoid overeating and don’t abuse drugs or alcohol. Using drugs or alcohol just causes other issues, such as family and health problems.
Through celebrating others, you’ll practice the selflessness it takes to let go of your tiny shell and leap into the ocean of success that comes through serving others.

It’s impossible to find anyone who’s entirely self-made, we all rely on and benefit from the presence of other people.

If we celebrated others’ success as if it were our own, we could feel a huge surge in positivity and joy, which can lead to greater optimism, the latter benefiting our own health.
You cannot celebrate  with married couple because you are unmarried, divorced or single.

You cannot wish others success because you fell unsuccessful.

Others joy and celebration make you sad.

You are Never happy for other, instead you go behind to put them down out of jealousy.

My dear, depression and life sadness is building house in your health department.

Take care of yourself if not, depression, heart problems, diabetes to mention a few, will set in.

By being courageous and selfless enough to embrace others’ success, we also get the benefit of greater satisfaction. We feel fulfilled instead of bitter.
Health is Wealth.

 

This article was published by Dr Maureen Ona-Igbru in December 2017 and we publish it now because it is still very relevant at this time.

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